How to Transfer Ashes to an Urn
A Step-by-Step Guide
Placing a loved one’s cremated remains into their final resting place is a profound experience. Whether you are learning how to transfer ashes to an urn, keepsake, or memorial jewelry, this guide offers gentle, practical steps to help you complete the process with care and confidence.
You have complete flexibility in how you handle this delicate step. Consider which of these three options feels most comfortable for you:
Let the Professionals Handle It
The personnel at funeral homes and crematories are well-versed in transferring ashes. Under the FTC’s Funeral Rule, providers must accept a cremation urn you purchased elsewhere (though some may charge a small filling fee). This option provides the peace of mind of knowing that your loved one’s remains are being handled with professional care and is helpful for those who do not feel comfortable handling the ashes.
How to Put Ashes in an Urn Using the Sealed Bag Method
If you wish to take this meaningful step yourself or share this moment with loved ones, it can be a deeply significant ritual. Cremated remains usually come from the funeral home or crematory contained in a thick polyethylene bag that is inside a sturdy cardboard box, plastic box or plastic temporary urn. If you want to transfer the ashes yourself but prefer not to pour the remains, you can simply remove the securely sealed plastic bag from its temporary urn and place the entire bag directly into a new memorial urn of sufficient size.
How to Put Ashes into an Urn by Pouring
Sometimes the cremation urn closure is too small to transfer the plastic bag, or the urn shape is not ideal for this method of transfer. In these instances, you can put the ashes into the new urn by pouring. It is always recommended to use a plastic bag and secure tie inside an urn. Cremated remains are non-toxic, but because they are a fine particulate matter, they should be handled gently in an area free of drafts.
Step-by-Step Guide
How to Pour Ashes into an Urn
If you choose to pour the ashes, gathering your materials beforehand can help the process feel grounded and manageable.
What You Will Need:
- Your chosen urn (ensure you understand its specific closure method first)
- A sturdy plastic bag of the proper size and secure tie
- A flat, well-lit workspace away from breezes
- A newspaper or large sheet of paper to catch any spills
- A large funnel and scissors
- Glue or sealant (optional, for a permanent seal)
- Gloves (optional)
The Transfer Process:
- Prepare the Space: Spread your newspaper or paper on the flat surface. Place the open urn on top, insert the plastic bag into the urn, and then add your funnel into the opening.
- Create a Spout: Ensure the original plastic bag is securely closed, then snip a small diagonal hole across one corner to create a controlled pouring spout.
- Pour Slowly: Gently pour the remains through the funnel into the plastic bag inside the urn. Tap the funnel lightly to help the ashes settle. Once filled, securely close the plastic bag with a tie.
- Secure the Closure: Fasten the lid or closure method tightly. If you prefer a permanent seal, apply a small amount of adhesive to the closure. *Please note that if you permanently seal the urn, you may not be able to open it again in the future.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you put ashes directly in the urn?
Most cremated remains are placed inside a sealed plastic bag before being placed into the urn. This helps protect the ashes and makes future transfers easier if needed.
Can you transfer ashes yourself?
Yes. Many families choose to transfer ashes themselves as part of a meaningful memorial ritual. You can either place the original sealed bag into the urn or pour the ashes carefully using a funnel (we always recommend keeping the remains safely in a plastic bag, securely closed, inside the urn).
How do you put ashes in an urn safely?
The safest method is either letting the professionals handle the transfer or using the Sealed Bag Method.
If using the pouring method, the safest way to put ashes in an urn is to work on a flat surface away from drafts, use a funnel, and keep the remains inside a secure plastic bag within the urn.
Do I have to purchase an urn from the funeral home or crematory?
No. Under the FTC’s Funeral Rule, providers must accept a cremation urn you purchased elsewhere (though some may charge a small filling fee). Choosing a cremation urn isn’t just about selecting a container; it’s about finding a permanent home for a lifetime of love, history, and shared moments. Discover a resting place that truly reflects their unique legacy here.
We hope this guide is helpful and supportive in navigating this difficult process. If you have any additional questions about transferring ashes to a cremation urn, please feel free to reach out to us at hello@oneworldmemorials.com.
