How To Fill Cremation Jewelry

Filling cremation jewelry with ashes 

By Polly Giantonio

We are often asked how to fill a jewelry urn with a loved one’s ashes. The process is simple, but quite different than that of filling a large display cremation urn. Not only is a piece of cremation jewelry small, but wearing it close to one’s heart infers an intimacy. We want to honor the personal nature of wearing cremation jewelry by providing you with details on how to handle the cremation ashes and efficiently fill a jewelry urn.

Keep in mind that if you’re uncomfortable with filling a jewelry urn with ashes, you may request that your service provider (either the crematorium or funeral home) do this for you. Note the Federal Trade Commission’s Funeral Rule that specifies: “The funeral provider cannot refuse to handle a casket or urn you bought online, at a local casket store, or somewhere else — or charge you a fee to do it.”

Our instructional video and its contents:


  • Before you fill cremation jewelry
  • Materials you will need to fill your jewelry urn
  • Steps in how to fill a jewelry urn and seal the urn

Care for your cremation jewelry is specific to the metal. 

Before you fill cremation jewelry

Determine how your jewelry is loaded. Each piece uses one of three designs:

  • top-loaded jewelry urn with a twist off cap
  • bottom-loaded jewelry urn closed by a small screw
  • back-loaded jewelry urn closed by a small screw

    Our step-by-step video focuses on jewelry urns that secure the ashes compartment with a small screw. Before you begin, decide whether or not you want the jewelry urn permanently sealed.

    Identify an area in your home that:

    • has a flat, level surface
    • is well ventilated
    • an area without wind
    • an area with good lighting

    Materials you will need to fill your jewelry urn

    Gather and arrange the suggested items listed below.

    • a thin towel
    • small sheet of clean paper
    • toothpick*
    • small funnel* to fit the compartment urn 
    • small sieve (optional – to sift clumps from fine ashes)
    • liquid adhesive or glue (check with your vendor – OneWorld Memorials includes glue with each piece)
    • small flat-head screwdriver*
    • small plastic spoon
    • clothespin (to aid in propping up bottom or side-loaded cremation pendants)

    * these items are included with OneWorld Memorials Cremation Jewelry orders. The funnel we include doubles as a spoon.

    Expect that the cremated remains will come from the funeral home or crematorium contained in a thick polyethylene bag that is inside a sturdy cardboard or plastic box. Our article, "What To Expect When You Receive Cremation Ashes," provides sensitive information on receiving the call that the ashes are ready to bring home. The box will be labeled for proper identification and accompanied by a certificate of cremation.

    Consider removing a small amount of ashes from the bag and place them in a smaller container for ease of use. An urn with a small opening, such as a piece of cremation jewelry, requires special handling to fill and secure the ashes.

    It is helpful to remember that ashes can vary from a fine sandy powder like sugar to a gravelly texture such as kitty litter.

    Follow these easy steps to fill your jewelry urn

    Refer to our video that provides visual prompts that could help clarify any of the steps below. Keep in mind the steps below are based on a screw cap rather than the twist off cap.

    1. Place the thin towel on an ample workspace. This ensures that all urn parts are visible and close at hand.
    2. Lay out the tools, supplies and container with ashes on the towel.
    3. Lay the piece of paper on top of the towel. Take a small portion of cremains and place them on the paper. Use the spoon to separate large bits (if any) of ashes from fine ashes. (You can also use the small sieve to separate any larger bits from the fine ashes). The paper will also collect stray ashes while you’re filling the urn.
    4. Locate the screw cap on the jewelry, and open the ash chamber using a small screwdriver (usually a flathead). Be careful not to scratch the jewelry.
    5. With the plastic spoon, scoop a small amount of the fine ashes from the paper.
    6. Place the small funnel into the compartment opening. If the jewelry doesn’t lie flat, use a clothespin to hold the jewelry upright with the opening at top. (Or, consider having a family member or friend help you.)
    7. Pour a small amount of ashes from the spoon into the funnel. Gently shake the ashes through the funnel. If needed, use the toothpick to gently push ashes through the funnel. Be sure not to fill the chamber to the top. There needs to be room to easily put the screw back without disturbing the ashes.
    8. Use the toothpick to clear away any cremains from the threads. The cap should easily screw back in without obstruction.
    9. At this point, you’ll close the urn with the screw. If you wish to permanently seal the urn, use the liquid adhesive. Close the screw only about 80%. Then spread a dot of the adhesive under the screw head using the toothpick – close immediately to 100% before the glue dries. Allow 24 hours for the glue to dry.

    Note: if your jewelry has a twist-off top, be sure the cap is in a position to lie flush when worn and in alignment with the flat side of the jewelry. (see video)

    1. To finish, wipe your urn necklace or cremation bracelet with a fine cotton cloth to remove any stray ashes or fingerprints. It's recommended not to submerge the jewelry in water.

    While the thought of transferring cremated remains can be intimidating, it can also help to provide closure. If you are uncomfortable performing this task alone, ask a close friend or family member to help. Creating a personal ritual around the transfer could be helpful in the grieving process.

    Polly is a freelance writer and editor. She has taught poetry and writing at local universities, has mentored students of all ages, and developed and co-facilitated workshops on creativity, poetry, and creative writing. She enjoys dabbling in drawing and learning watercolors. Her poems and interviews have appeared in various print journals and magazines, including Poets & Writers, The Café Review, The Wisconsin Review, and the Aurorean. 



    Thank you so much for providing these details. They helped immensely! I plan to use Lok Tite to seal the threads, as the bond is nearly unbreakable.

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